Some of the most painful words a wife will ever hear is “I cheated and I’m not in love with you anymore”. After hearing this her life becomes a dark storm of emotions and self blame. “what did I do?” “can I fix it?” “whatever happened to for better or worse?” Granted it’s not like that for all people ….but it’s exactly what I’m feeling. I try not to vent here because blogs are for everyone but I feel connected to you guys. After 4 years he wants out and I don’t. I am definitely devastated but also am still fighting for my relationship. I believe I am his wife for a reason. He’s my Cory Matthews but I hope to be his Topanga one day.